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I have watched certain tribes deal with people who dont listen and respect others who share and they are given warnings and if they dont listen they are kicked out..
Iam tired of this Tribe's lenience in allowing Cathyq to sabotage nearly every single posting...she has no respect..or care for others here..and thinks everyone else needs to know about her pain and fear and victimhood...
I vote to have a new mod who will deal with this issue..otherwise we may as well disband this tribe...
Those interested please state your interest...
Iam tired of this Tribe's lenience in allowing Cathyq to sabotage nearly every single posting...she has no respect..or care for others here..and thinks everyone else needs to know about her pain and fear and victimhood...
I vote to have a new mod who will deal with this issue..otherwise we may as well disband this tribe...
Those interested please state your interest...
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 7:16 AMI am NOT respeaking of my experience here. I am providing info to people who wish toopen up who may have not noticed the need new mod threads.. their titles get tiresome.
Having a mod who will hold up the stated purpose of the tribe will be great. The consensus has been that everyone but me and a few who stated that they were not going to post with Noname as a mod.. has been that Nonamea is fine. I have stopped askign for a new mod.
People 2 - have opened their hearts and whiel that is a wonderful trusting action.. there is no mod operating in any way to maintain their open safety. I am NOT sabotaging nearly every single postiong. Glis.. I made a decision to support the group consensus about Noname and no longer ask for a new mod.
You have no idea what I think or don't think. Youtend to project and say what you apparently think I or others think. Stop doign that. Just concentrate on what you think. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 7:56 AMCathyq, I would like to encourage you to remove yourself from this tribe if you feel strongly enough about it being unsafe that you are compelled to post this information in threads not of that subject.
Members have protested your action and have expressed their want for you to stop your current line of action.
Rejecting or ignoring this is a rejection of the wants of others here and the repeated pattern is creating a deeper rift that is not conducive to productive process.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:11 AM> _ this happened on 2 threads.
I am no longer asking for a new mod as I was asked to stop asking.
>.._ your speaking for everyone is presumptuous.
Actually this tribe has become a mostly dead tribe. New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod, and may very well believe the opening statements, which are no longer valid. -
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New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod,
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:46 AMThere are plenty of tribes with inacitve mods that are not dead.
The assertion that the tribe is dead because of a nonexistant mod does not hold.
The emptiness is arguably because one person is monopolizing almost every thread with her own agenda. Please stop monopolizing the threads with your own agenda. This agenda is about how you want the tribe to be without regard for the majority of active members who have disagreed with your agenda.
Your inexorable thread-jacking is the killer of this tribe. Please reflect on that.
If this: '>.._ your speaking for everyone is presumptuous. ' is meant for me, I did not speak for everyone. Please read the number of posts that have asked you to stop and people who have protested your actions. You will note that there are many. -
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Re: New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod,
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 1:32 PMI do not monopolize every thread. I am sorry that you need to lie to make a point.
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Re: New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod,
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 5:53 PMI did not say every, though I will concede that almost every might be a bit hyperbolous, not an outright lie. You try to steer many to your issue rather than the issue started in the thread.
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Re: New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod,
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:15 PMwell ummm >.-- you tend to jump on me constantly
almost (80%) every time I speak you need to respond negatively
check it out
also consider what you spoke about in Tribe Mod tribe.. your style tho' you may nto like to hear it can be a bit overdone. -
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Re: New users do not know of the emptiness left by a non-existent mod,
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:14 PMNo, Marley, many have not asked for a new MOD.. All but me said they were satisfied with the present mod last time we checked.
Your lies used to make a point do not bode you as ethical as you make out to be.
There is no many who have asked for a new mod. 2 on this thread is not many.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 7:27 AMWe need an active moderator, even if we just have one on a temporary basis.
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let's not work the moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 9:13 AMI don’t share Glitzen’s frustration to see Cathyq’s contributions to this tribe—definitely not sabotage from my viewpoint.
Current moderator is doing fine. In fact, IMHO, a hands off moderator fosters community building efforts and exercise within the group—without resorting to power struggles vis a vis “working the moderator”.
Nothing personal agaist anyone.. just my prespective
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 1:27 PMI find it hard to understand what the tactics for dealing with the problem is and why we choose to hold onto the "no moderator" status. What does this actually accomplish? I would like to know the answer to this. Otherwise, our antagonist gets to hold the highest power in the tribe.
Understanding Conscious relating includes understanding power dynamics and knowing when to step up (with understanding and compassion) and take away anything that takes away from the purpose of the tribe by taking away the cause of the problems power. I find this tribe has been sucked dry without any ability to communicate for at least 6 months. Nothing much has been done, except the "don't feed the troll" mentality. "Conscious Relating" to this individual so far hasn't helped us, and cannot help us unless everyone who is amongst the tribe is at least willing to relate in this manner...
If we were a real tribe with this as a base philosophy, and an individual disrupted all activities within that tribe, the tribe would stand up for itself. To me, this tribe does not stand up for itself, and in a larger context it shows a weakness within the "conscious relations" ideal which is attempted to be attained here.
If we wish to continue the 'lack of moderation' then we have to take a deeper analysis at the problem, the weaknesses of the approach we have chosen, and consciously choose as a group how to fully face the issue and stand up to the challenge.
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life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:09 PM"..why we choose to hold onto the "no moderator" status"
no moderator is closer to adult life than elementary school
maybe it is because i just rejoin.. but it does not seem to be that hostile around here
at least i have seen alot worse..
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:38 PMDawn, Paula, Glistenz... you know I'm on board for this change here and you reflect my own frustrations with Cathyq. This issue has been brought up many times, and so far, people have resisted voting in a new mod. Perhaps the dike is breaking at last?
Many here have stood up against Cathyq's routine and called for new moderation. But such actions will remain in vain unless the active members of this tribe consent to voting in a new mod, for we've seen that ignoring Cathyq doesn't work for very long, and we've all seen how vain our hopes have been for her to leave of her own accord permanently.
This housecleaning is long overdue, and I'm up for voting a new mod.
Since Paula, Glistenz, and I have had some issues with each other before, perhaps it's best to vote for someone else. I'd be happy to do it, but I want to avoid fears of bias as well as anyone pulling the "bias card" on me for doing what I feel to be right as a mod.
Dawn, how would you feel about taking the position -even just temporarily if that's what you'd prefer?
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:40 PMHow do the other members of this tribe feel about officially opening the vote? -
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 7:24 PMThe past is the past for me in regards to who the mod could be, I do hear what you are saying Marley and it sounds feasible and logical...
Posting this thread is my intention to get the ball rolling...OFFICIALLY...
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 10:11 PMNot that I have anything against Dawn, but I am partial to Steve. FWIW
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Wed, June 24, 2009 - 8:05 PMwhat you dislike is that I feel we need to have a MOD who will uphold the opening tenent of safety and trust in this tribe.
It was a safe tribe for a very long time. It remained so until a disagreement opened up about people having extra-marital affairs which I am against.. then Gehenna/Marley you let fly. Nonamea did nothing for a long while.
She agreed to handle things and to make the tribe at ease and left. It has been almost 6 months. The last time I asked for a new MOD everyone agreed that I was wrong for asking. I complied with that request.
Tribe has a means for allowing a voting process to elect moderators when requested by active members of the tribe desire this change. maybe someone would like to PM Nonamae and tell her we are discussing this..
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 9:14 AMCathy, you're not acknowledging the overwhelming and long-standing message coming from the multitudes that your disruptive behavior is unacceptable. This isn't about people being unhappy with the moderator -this is about people being unhappy with your actions/behaviors. The ONLY reason this tribe is showing an interest in a new mod is because of you. It's really that simple. You don't care about anyone else's feelings on this matter, and you even refuse to leave this tribe even when you state how unhappy you are with it. You DO realize don't you that once we have a new mod, you'll be kicked off this tribe, right? So why don't you just go ahead and leave? You're the only person who's carrying on a dead issue with me and continuing to insist on the false, unprovable belief that I'm operating an alt called Gehenna. Everyone can clearly see that you keep pulling that card every time the spotlight comes back to you -which, ironically, you apparently insist on having by continuing to behave as you do. So again, why not honor yourself regarding how much you dislike being on this tribe, and honor everyone else who doesn't want you here, and just go? -
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 9:37 AMMarley
go back and find any quote of mine saying that I do not like this tribe or that I am unhappy with it. You have chosen to imply thoughts and feelings to me which are not true. I have stated my concerns with other words and feelings.
You may choose to use words like "we all" or " this is only about .. blah blah.." Please go back and read others' statements on this thread alone. There is a conflict in your words and others.
I can't bother arguing with you. You openly admitted consistently that you don't like me and that something about me makes you need to carry out actions.. I have no spell on you. You are responsible for your actions alone! . and Gehenna and you have often brought up long links with your debilitating and scary needs to defame..
that is your internal problem, not mine. It affects CR tribe because you and gehenna can do this to anyone here.
If I wished to waste time I might pull up the thread where you spoke about the yoga studio owner who was going to call the police to get you out of there.. you wondered why! Or to post the PM from Isa.. which in my choice is not ethical to do.. however with you who went through my entire profile, posts and and blogs to find info to twist and to change in Shining Stars that type of action woudl be standard. -
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Re: life does not have a moderator
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 11:10 AMCathy, I'm not arguing with you, and I don't need to waste my time digging up all the links to substantiate what I'm saying. It's all been done before, and your reputation not only proceeds you, but you continue to reinforce it everywhere you go on Tribe.
Here, I'm stating the simple present facts of what others here and on other tribes are complaining about regarding you. You continue to violate boundaries, hijack threads, and try to defame people and attack them particularly when they're calling you on your behavior. When I keep quiet long enough, you quickly find someone else to engage in an antagonistic affair with. This is not healthy behavior, and this is what the majority of the active members of this particular tribe are hoping to see eliminated.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 4:29 AMI count six votes for a new mod and 1 against. Anyone else? -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 7:07 AMI see
Glis
Marley
Lori
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 7:09 AM(dot) said things ar efine
Dawn sid we have to really think about what to do
I didnt ask for one this time
>- I am not sure came out with that request
we are definitely discussing needs ,but these 3 did not state definitely that they wish to continue with the process.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 10:11 AM"I see
Glis
Marley
Lori
all definitely for a new MOD
who are the other 3 please? "
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 10:20 AMGlis
Marley
Lori
Brian
Dawn.. ? did she for sure?
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 10:23 AMplease reread dawn's statement.. I think she said we needed to re-examine hwo we deal with ..
I did nto see a definite request or statement to have a new MOD.
I will nominate a few tho' as we seem to be going inthat direction:
ENIAD
gypsi star
Nathan
fifi
Rev Ro
Geert
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 11:16 AMENIAD
gypsi star
Nathan
fifi
Rev Ro
Geert
None of these members are active on this tribe.
This thread is the first I've seen ENIAD participate in on this tribe for months.
Thus I don't think any of them are appropriate as moderators. Even ENIAD
stated that she's not keen on taking the position.
Dawn seems willing, but slightly ambivalent about it.
Despite the concerns I mentioned about moderating here myself, I'll offer to do so just the same if others here would like that. Most here already know that I moderate a few tribes already that are pretty active -and there haven't been any problems so far. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 12:16 PMwell, Marley you persist in using absolutes.
I feel that an unbiased MOD with experience working with large groups is one solution.
We know Marley that you refuse to allow me in a tribe with you because I refuse to allow you to PM me.. the results of that are on record.
You may fool many. You, like I , and all know our internat motivations and needs more so than any other can project.
Is the MOD voting to get rid of one or two people or is it for a safe tribe? Those issues differ.
I have a pattern of speaking up; of contributing; of answering questions on tribe. This is different than some who only read or only ask for help or always agree. It is independent. Re Marley, you use threads/links to show my difficulties.. they show how hard and long you will type to use defamation as your tool.
Finally Marley in Energy Awarteness you had friends of yours drop by to vote for you as MOD there who had not been active in that tribe. So why would you oppose having respected people here? -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 1:35 PMI think the current mod is doing a great job.
Plus, she's a really hot woman.
Keep up the good work!
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 5:16 PMCathyq, I made it very clear that you're welcome to be on any of the tribes that I moderate so long as you follow the guidelines, and among those are necessitating that I be able to PM individual members when necessary to keep inappropriate dialogue not meant for an audience out of threads to avoid mucking them up. You've refused to do both, and that's the only reason you remain out of those tribes.
This vote is about placing a mod here that will enforce the guidelines of the tribe and keep it safe. That is my primary objective, and as long as you continue with this behavior that others have been citing you on in this and other tribes, then you will be shut out. When you're willing to keep to the guidelines of any particular tribe and engage members respectfully and appropriately, you will find yourself welcome there.
Per your last question here about "opposing having respected people here", what are you talking about? That sentence doesn't seem to make sense. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 9:22 AMM.. I refuse to ever have an open PM for you. You know why. It is not a generally expected guideline on tribe that MODS make to their tribe members. i believ eit is a made up guidelien of your to remove me from any tribe which you MOD. which I choose to not belong to anyway as I have seen your work, actions and know the turmoil behind them.
I choose to not have this in my life.
Re having respected people being asked to be MODS.. I prefer to have this tribe consider having a person with a track record of great deal of respect inother large tribes as a potential MOD. I do nto mandate it as necessary. it is oen way to go.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, July 6, 2009 - 9:51 PMDawn, if she'd like to do it.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 10:10 AMBeing an anarchist it's difficult for me to support asking for a new mod. I have to agree though, we are losing our focus and it's time for a change. I vote for Dawn if she'll take on the role. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Thu, June 25, 2009 - 2:20 PMEven the poor folks in Raw Wisdom are being subject to this person's need to bring Conscious Relating stuff into their tribe..
That is how bad this has become..it is taken into other tribes and constantly hashed up by Cathyq...
Roll up roll up for votes!!!
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:08 AMHey guys,
I'm for a solution, if everyone is on the new moderator solution, that's what I support.
As for me becoming mod - wow guys, I'm honored. I am not sure If I am the perfect one for the job, but I can see what I can do. I am all ears in my ways... -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:19 AMok so that's 5 votes to have an election for a new MOD
(Glis.. I did ask if anyone wished to be mod here in RW, yes. That is not a crime. I didn't speak about the difficulties; nor the lack of safety here. I let it be. Mny people who post there are very mature, well-respected members of tribe who work well with others and who are consistently active. Those qualities are what I woudl hope we have in a new MOD.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 10:41 AMLots of drama in a tribe ironically called Conscious Relating.
I would also vote for a new mod. Sometimes a little hands -on is necessary.
But I have not been an active member of this tribe so not me.
I will see if I can decipher what is going in the threads but I have very little time.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 11:12 AMENIAD, if you've been on Cathy's other tribes, you'll see it's no different there.
If you look at the tribes she's not on, you'll see the clear difference.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 2:00 PMMarley has my vote
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:07 PMMy vote is against Marley
and for Nonamae.
My vote is also against sniveling whiners who need their hand held online and IRL, and who live in some low level state of perpetual fear.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 3:14 PMI am not a fan of Marley's process and practice. [no offense] I would also vote against Marley. Again, I like Steve's way of doing things.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 5:22 PMMrs. Doppleganger, this is a completely inappropriate, destructive kind of comment to make.
I have nothing against someone not wanting to vote for me, but this thread is about who we DO want to vote for.
This is not an open invitation to throw slander and insults at anyone.
As I and others have illustrated, we're dealing with a very straightforward issue of a particular individual (and this applies to anyone, btw) who's not respecting the guidelines of the tribe and continually creates a hostile, alienating space that discourages members from participating here. We're dealing with an absent moderator who has not adequately resolved this issue and thus enables this destructive, unwelcomed behavior to continue.
We're working as a collective now to remedy this problem. It may not be the perfect solution, but it's all that's apparently left to us at this point, and we've chosen to go with it and see what happens. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 5:25 PMBtw, the voting process is in effect here, since this topic was posted on June 24th, the vote will end on July 25th to provide a full month for this to finalize -that is, unless a majority objects to this timeline, or wants to shorten it to 2 or 3 weeks instead. -
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Re: the vote will end on July 25th
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:18 PMAgain Marley, you are a pussy.
I can essentially say what I please.
I can express my complete lack of support for you
AND
vote for Nonamae.
If you weren't such a whiny fucking PC pussy man, maybe CathyQ the nutjob wouldn't be foaming at the mouth all the time.
If you werent such a whiner, maybe you could divest from your emotional investment in what she has to say and that feeds the dysfunctional pattern of communication that exists between you and her and her and others.
She is no more or less annoying than you, or me for that matter.
You do not control public discourse here, idiot.
She - like you - like myself, like everyone, are free to express themselves in generally any manner they wish.
If you don't agree with this concept, please feel free to move to Iran, China, North Korea, Zimbabwe.
Silly twatboy: I'm voting you off the island. Iwant a new vote to vote you off the island.
Should I start a lamer fucking thread in some idiotic attempt to structure reality to my liking and preferences?
Is that how it works?
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Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:28 PMYeah, okay, even though I am not a fan of Marley, I'd like to distance myself from "Mrs. Doppelganger's" commentary. Especially since she's using epthets of vaginas to insult him. I have a vagina, I don't think that calling someone a vagina is so much an insult, but that's me. -
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Re: If you weren't such a whiny fucking PC pussy man
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:36 PMblah blah blah.
I was speaking for myself silly PCwoman poopyhead.
I wasn't seeking your support, or that you rub up against my comments in a manner that would require "distancing" from text on a screen on a dying social network that appears to function as some sort of social crutch for the remaining populace.
Understand?
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Re: If you weren't such a whiny fucking PC pussy man
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 10:02 PMDoppleganger, you'd be utterly laughable if you weren't such a tragedy of the human soul. It's really a shame that you need to behave in this way to get whatever it is you're after.
I don't disagree that people have the right to freedom of speech. However, the guidelines of this tribe clearly requests respectful discourse. If you want to carry on like this, then there are tribes for that which you would be welcome. But it's obvious you're just another troll, so whatever. I don't care to invest any more energy into responding to people like you. So do what you want, because it really doesn't affect me. I've said my peace, and that's all I need to say. -
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Re: If you weren't such a whiny fucking PC pussy man
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 10:08 PMWow: you puffed up all big and brave like a big guy there Marley.
Simply put: if you continue harassing CathyQ - annoying butthead that she is - with your fucked up little PC schtick, I will reply in kind, except I will not use the pretty little words and fake concern that you employ as your MO in all your deluded tribes that you cherish like a little idiot child in the corner with fetishized barbies.
Didn't you advocate fucking animals at one point about a year or so ago?
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Re: the vote will end on July 25th
Tue, July 7, 2009 - 12:12 PMTake your comments and offensive language elsewhere.
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Re: the vote will end on July 25th
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:56 PMPaula: "Why not suggest it instead of deciding this is the way?"
I'm simply presencing the standard process, and I also said: " unless a majority objects to this timeline, or wants to shorten it to 2 or 3 weeks instead." ...So that's my way of opening it to group process.
But I know you're what you're up to, and it's really a sad game that you play. I had hoped you moved past that by now.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:18 PMstuff it Poorley!
You too glowbanger
I am sick of the entire crowd and the stupidity which rages as thought.
Lori, best of luck withthe voting process. Marley ahs several alts.l. they have begun to vote..
The election has beentaken over,
And No! I don't have alts. And no! I shall not write all my friends to drop in and vote as did marley when he won MOD on Enbergy Awareness.. oh, umm, then he delted the voting thread.
it's a done deal now folks.
Welcome to Marley's malarkey!
he deletes anything except that which puppets his pontification.
And Mis, while I deeply appreciate your words and ire in particular inreference to your insight with M... I am not frothing at the mouth.I spent 2 weeks awaiting a new work schedule and had a bit too much time for tribe. much has changed since. Less time.. and truthfuly m. must win this one. once he invokes hi alts,it's done!, so he shall.
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Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:19 PMGlis ball.. I deleted the thread from the other tribe.
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Mon, June 29, 2009 - 5:44 PMCathyq I hope you find time to address you nastiness and name calling..so long..
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Fri, June 26, 2009 - 9:53 PMThis is the first time I've seen you post on this tribe Dale. Why do you care all of a sudden? -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Fri, June 26, 2009 - 10:01 PMWhat in the fuck is your problem Marley?
Who in the fuck are you to question the motives of people voting?
Would you like people to only vote for you?
Seems to me you have a different version of what afflicts CathyQ from time to time.
you have big poopies in your head.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 8:38 AMSometimes certain things are important enough to stop lurking, but thank you for your input I'll stop caring now.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 2:26 PMI WILL MODERATE
IT'S ALL I DO
I DO NOT JOIN IN DISCUSSIONS
I WATCH, AND MODERATE
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 2:28 PMThen why have a moderator? Just make it a non-moderated tribe!
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Tue, July 7, 2009 - 12:13 PM... a CathyQ alt???
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 12:41 PMI know a lot of people voted here but it would make it easier and clearer if they revoted in the Vote Only thread, thanks for keeping that thread limited to voting only. I'm not trying to limit discussion, we can discuss this as much as we need to, I'm just trying to keep that thread clear.
And I guess we should talk about the temp mod issue, can we talk about that here? As far as I can tell there is no one who really wants to replace nomaeme, I think if she comes back and has the time to be active again, and wants the modship back we would all be okay with that. Does anyone object to that? -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 1:05 PMthanks Lori.. it feels liek the voting thread is THE thread for votes.
I, however, disagree that Nanamae shoudl be given modship back if she comes back and has time and energy for it. She said she did last time and lasted 6 days only and has been goen 6 months.
maybe a vote on that as well..
Only on eperson stipulated that his vote was a temporary vote.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 2:52 PMfor the record my last conversations with Nonamae were about her giving the mod away ..I dont think she has much say as she def aint here as much as I luffs her.. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 2:54 PMI agree with what Gehenna said..there is no reason to count only the votes on the posting she started..this thread was created with the sole purpose of finding a new mod and so be it..with conversations dotted in there too.. -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 3:27 PMokay I'm done, best to you all -
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 7:30 PMLori said: "I'm not trying to limit discussion, we can discuss this as much as we need to, I'm just trying to keep that thread clear. As far as I can tell there is no one who really wants to replace nomaeme"
I think Gehenna was right Lori. You seemed to ignore the patterns of engagement on this tribe and set yourself up for the frustration that you're obviously feeling by commenting back to each person who did anything other than just vote. I too think it would serve you better to accept what happened on your thread and just take it all as it is rather than choosing to fight it.
And I have no problem with replacing Nonamae permanently. Sure, I wish it wasn't necessary, because when she's here, she's great, but the whole point of all this is that she's unreliable and I think any moderator owes it to their tribe to be more present and active. Plus, this will be one less thing for her to have concern about. She's clearly got more on her plate than she can handle as it is (blessings to you wherever you are Nonamae!).
Lori said: "okay I'm done, best to you all"
That comes across as you feeling upset that your expectation to have your thread honored the way you wanted has compelled you to leave the tribe altogether. Is that so? If it is, then I'll be sorry to see you go as you've made good contributions here.
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Re: Ok It's time for a new mod...
Tue, July 7, 2009 - 12:18 PMOK, so who is still in the running at this point?
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